If being a friend is turning your back when someone needs you, then I don’t want to be a friend….

If being a friend means talking behind someone’s back, then I don’t want to be a friend…

If being a friend means there is competition to be better, than I don’t want to be a friend….

If being a friend is not keeping secrets, then I don’t want to be a friend…

If being a friend builds up a world of envy and jealousy, stirring ideas to sabotage someone’s happiness then let’s all be alone! ❤️

 

Start Over With New Possibilities

Not all our days will be the same… Some days may not have a good outcome. Some people may not have been truthful to you…

There will be days when you won’t feel the love…  Or days when the things you wanted most might not happen… We don’t always get everything we want right away….. But do you know what?

Every day we get a new chance to start over with new expectations and throughout the day, we gain experience and grow as a person. A bad day will not define who you are! It is just a bad day and tomorrow will be better!  Just breathe and remember, tomorrow is another day to start over with new possibilities!  ❤️

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Do What is Right for your Soul!

 

It’s amazing on what you come up with while drinking coffee:

Many times, we get stuck wondering about situations and the people that crossed our path. We put too much pressure on others and their actions or non-actions that it consumes most of our energy and time.

Do not do that to yourself. Just let things be. Let people go if you must or give them space to sort their own things. We are all dealing with our own issues and situations, and the last thing we want is to feel pressured into something we still have not sorted out on our own.

In this terrible time, all that people want is a little patience and acceptance, because time, we all have right now. Don’t fight for closure or even ask for explanations. People might not be in the same place as you and they might not understand your point of view, but if you give them time and space, they might come around and let you in to their world. Focus on yourself and what you have going on, so you don’t fall into the chase mode.

You must do what is right for your soul, because no one knows you better like you know yourself. ❤️

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Blessed Sunday

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Blessed Sunday to all my Beautiful Friends… Let’s enjoy a cup of coffee together. Keep your thoughts positive. Stay strong! Everything will work out for our greater benefit! We will get through this together ❤️

Enjoy what Life has to Offer

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Don’t fret about things… Just be open to all the possibilities and when you least expect it, everything that you desire will come to you at the right time! Imagine that it is already yours. You create your reality! If we focus on the good things and the things that we want we are automatically sending a message to our abundant Universe who will do its magic to bring it to reality. Your thoughts have a strong power. Make the most of it and there is no limit to where you can go! Just remember to show your gratitude and enjoy the real beauty that life has to offer! ❤️

Happy New Year

Happy New Year to all my beautiful souls. I cannot believe how last year came and went and yet here we are in another decade! The years just seem to be flying by! I don’t want to sound like a broken record and write the usual best wishes that everyone writes. Wishing the usual love, happiness and joy to all. I’d rather write about doing things for yourself that genuinely make you happy. 

Letting you know the importance of following your dreams. Don’t put off till tomorrow what you know in your heart you want! 

Keep smiling! Leave the tension that’s been accumulated behind! Feel the joy, forget your worries. Most of the times, the things we worry about don’t even come to fruition. Make peace with anyone holding grudges. Take that leap of faith and leave behind anything that causes you pain. Most importantly, always be happy!

Enjoy the little things in your life, they are actually the biggest ones… and…don’t forget to smile!

Happy New Year 🌹

Break it Down

Procrastination will rob you of your sense of purpose and of fulfillment. It is a tiny virus that slowly gets into your whole being and selfishly eats away at your creative energy that otherwise had you not been attacked by the bug of putting off what you could do today, you would have accomplished what you intended of doing.

Stick to a plan. Make a list. Break down everything into tiny parts. Once you do what needs to be done, you won’t be overwhelmed but actually have a sense of pride of all that you’ve accomplished.

Perhaps waking up a little earlier when everyone is still fast asleep or waiting after everyone has gone to bed and the chores are all done… We only have 24 hours in the day but we all deserve to do things for ourselves. Things that bring us joy and happiness. 

Sometimes we have all the time for others and to do things for others that we forget about ourselves…  Breaking our tasks down will allow us a bigger time frame to get things done and before you know it, you just might have more time to do more of the things you love! ❤️

Worry about yourself

 

In times of doubt, remember to just let go of all the idle talk that is slowly robbing you of your true potential! 

Clear away those voices that day in and day out tell you that your not worthy… YOU ARE! You are worthy because inside of you is a star ⭐️ waiting to shine! Too many times we stay stuck because we are too busy on the wrong frequency of our lives to actually pull through into the direction we are meant to travel! We tend to be more concerned of what others might think 🤔 if we do this or that, or on what others are doing and we forget what’s in our hearts ♥️!  Your heart speaks wonders.. you just have to listen! 

Worry about yourself and everything else will follow! 

Love One Another Firsthand

We have to teach our children to be loving and caring of one another. To accept everyone regardless of the colour of their skin or ethnic backgrounds.

To look beyond any imperfections, and we all know that we are not perfect. We all make mistakes and make wrong choices. It’s not teaching your kids to defend themselves in an argument that counts. It’s teaching them not to judge one another and be more compassionate! 

It’s teaching our kids that not everyone will like us but that’s ok because just as long as we like ourselves that’s what matters. It’s picking up on the clues that something might be wrong with our child when they appear angry out of nowhere. It’s really our responsibility as parents to make sure that the tree that we created in a way of speaking, grows up tall and strong and knows how to be more accepting of everyone regardless of their issues and disabilities.

It doesn’t matter what type of family you come from, if it’s with a traditional mother or father, or two fathers or two mothers or just one playing the part of both or even a grandparent acting out as both, families still need to show love to their kids and teach them empathy.

What I see mainly, is a lot of judgmental children that are so quick to judge without knowing the whole story or trying to understand when all we need is more love..  more openness… more acceptance…. We teach our kids to look beyond the colour of the skin or disabilities…. that a child is a child no matter what they look like and deserves friends and someone to play with! We show our kids to love one another firsthand! ❤️

Always Shine Bright

Don’t be the reason you don’t succeed… Don’t listen to the voices inside of you or the others telling you that your not capable! 

We are all capable of great things. We are all worthy of success and happiness. There’s no need to prove anything to no one. Only to do it all for ourselves without anyone’s approval or consent.

We live in a shallow world filled with people waiting to dismiss or criticize anybody’s attempt for happiness or success. When in reality everyone’s entitled to their day in the sun!

It’s time to stop looking elsewhere for approval and look inside ourselves for the answers…  Always shine bright! ❤️