Your Resilience will Push You Further

When things go our way, it’s incredible! It’s so easy to be happy and grateful for all the good things. The trick is being grateful for the things that go wrong in our lives. Sometimes just a change of attitude and thoughts can go a long way. For every negative that occurs there’s always a positive. Sometimes we are so focused on what happened or what didn’t happen that we lose sight of what could happen, our benefit of what seems to be a setback! Look for the opportunity to do something better. To perfect your weaknesses and also your strengths, while you find a better way!

Life has a way of pushing us to our limits… Sometimes we could be working so hard that we lose sight of what’s important, and life pushes that we suffer an accident. With that we see what really was important, our family for one, that we neglected throughout the years because it was all about the money and a career.

We all have our preferences and know what it’s all about but if you don’t have a balance something is bound to happen to shake you up and make you think!

Your resilience and strength, ability to bounce back is what will you push you further and closer to your destination… It’s really all about your attitude and if it’s a positive one your half way there!

Courage my friend! Your closer than you think! Believe that things will change and your capacity to grow with it all!

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Today Is A Gift

It doesn’t matter if it’s cold or hot outside, or if it’s raining or sunny, what matters is that you’re alive! You received another day to get up and do something that really counts to make you happy!
Life is too precious! Life is also too short to do anything but live! Is that hockey game really going to bring you closer to your goals? Will you really be happy buying one more vase when you already have a dozen of them? Is not doing anything really in your best interest when you know you have a ton of things to do and the clock keeps on ticking away?

What you decide to do or not do is up to you. You have the same amount of time that everyone else has, 24 hours and yet it seems like there’s not enough hours in the day to get things done. Life is a miracle. We are all miracles! We are here today, without knowing if we will be here tomorrow and yet we live like there’s no tomorrow, allowing life to pass us by. One day, five years will pass by, and then ten years will go by, before you know it many more will follow. What did we accomplish if we really did not take the appropriate actions to make our dreams come true? Nothing ever comes easy without the hard work in the equation. Unless you know you are up for an inheritance or that you will dream of the winning numbers of your local lottery, you probably most likely have to win the game with your hard work, willingness, determination, focus, perseverance and of course your action to do all of the above and more.

Today is your chance. Today is a gift! It doesn’t matter if you have a Degree only, if you don’t do the work needed to get to where you want. Imagine what you can do with that degree and more… The Sky is the Limit with your ACTIONS. Treat each day with extra care. Do the things you know you have to do first to get you closer. It’s only time wasted when there’s nothing to learn.

Live Your Dream

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Nobody but yourself can do what you need to do for you! Your life is what you decide to make of it! Your life can be a happy life or a sad life. It can be a serious one or hilarious. It can be beautiful or ugly. Everything depends on your perspective. It all depends on which angle you choose to see it. Your glass of life can be half empty or half full…Your dreams can come true if you take the appropriate steps and actions needed. You can paint your life with your mind using all the colours of the rainbow…underneath all adversity is a strength of a lion that’s waiting to subdue and conquer! It’s not over until God says it’s over… A chapter has ended and a new one is just beginning! Love your life…even with the turmoil. You will come out of it stronger and wiser…❤️

In the end what matters most is what you think and not what others do!

Don’t let other people dictate your life and what’s best for you! Only you know what’s best for you. There is only one you in this world! You’re unique flaws in all.

 

          Too many times in life we let go of pursuing our dreams just because we listened in on somebody’s advice that wasn’t aligned to our ultimate goal. You don’t need nobody’s approval but your own. Listen to your heart! If in your heart says keep going, then keep going! Work hard for it and don’t give up. Many times the person giving us advice may not want us to succeed and actually want to sabotage a good plan.

 

          Don’t let that person meant for you get away just because of things you’ve heard. You could be losing your diamond just because someone said false statements regardless if it’s family or close friends. People have their own reasoning to why they do what they do. They could have other motives that don’t coincide with the truth. You just have to have a watchful eye and examine all angles with pros and cons first. In the end what matters most is what you think and not what others do!

The Plan

Don’t rush. What’s meant to be yours will be yours! Allow some time for you to get started with the things you need to start doing.

Pack in your patience too. As you might not see the desired results you wanted to see just yet! Ask for some Guidance as you wait patiently.

Figure out exactly what you want and where you want to go, then work your way to it! ❤️

When your to-do list gets too much to handle, don’t be shy enough to ask for assistance. When that’s the answer delegate work to be done to people you trust!

Be grateful for all the things that you have going for you in your life! Be confident as well.

Make sure to prioritize which ones need your immediate attention first!

Things can get done when you multitask and juggle and are surely a success. If by chance your things get quiet, expect to see a big increase of action.

Your juggling may represent a family, new career opportunisties, a new love interest, your health, your home, big things to have on your plate. Don’t work alone. Ask for help. There are many kinds of stress! Good can also come out of this!

You Have Choices

You have the freedom to change. Don’t be afraid of changes. Changes often come with anticipation and can be welcoming by you.

At first, moving on can be a challenge because of the unknown. Your future is full of magic and bright.

You have choices whether it’s in your health, career or in your relationships.

You have choices. You can learn from your past and move forward, or you can be held back by it. Don’t let your past block you from your happiness.

Don’t let your past steal your joy! Release your past and move onward.
You have choices! ❤️

When we’re happy we want to tell the world, or the people that are close to us, because we think that other people will be happy too… Sometimes keeping our happiness and happy moments to ourselves is many times the answer. Perhaps like that happiness doesn’t have an expiration date and will last longer! Keep that secret to yourself and enjoy it! Remember not everyone has a good heart like yours ❤️✨

Everything Helps

Having children can be the most exhilarating and yet the most frightening. You can go from zero to a hundred in a matter of seconds. Everything helps when you have a plan. Everything helps when you set goals and boundaries. Everything helps when you have a support group outside of your home. I put together a list of five helpful tips but I know there’s so much more. If only life was this simple. I probably do a second partake in the near future. With children there’s so much to talk about. I might not have a PHD in Child Psychology or Child Development but I have four kids. That should say it all. We are always learning and trying new methods to make life easier.

 

 1. One of the best things you can do for your child is to show genuine interest. To lead by example is to be the kind of person you want your child to be. To figure out what your true values are and acting on them. They can be as simple as doing unto others what you want done to yourself. To never giving up on making your dreams come true. To know that it’s ok to ask for help when you feel a little overwhelmed and to not be too hard on yourself when things don’t go your way!

 

2. Show affection. No one ever said too much affection was a bad thing especially when kids are small but lack of affection causes a significant impact on a child’s behavior development causing them many times to act up. Don’t be afraid to give lots of hugs or shower them with kisses. It will do wonders for their self esteem. Some kids might be into high-fives or some prefer that you text them or write them sweet little notes. Find your way to show how much you care and appreciate them. They grow up so fast and will remember every second you demonstrated your love!

 

3. Be the parent that asks questions. Be the parent that shows up to practice and recitals. Be the parent that “shows up”. Be the one that’s present, and makes time for their child. Don’t be afraid to ask questions about what’s going on your child’s life. Ask questions about school, activities or interests. Be open and friendly to their friends. Ask questions about them. Be accepting of everyone.

 

4. Your child needs you to be clear, reasonable, consistent and lenient to their ever changing needs and choices as they grow older. Sometimes you are the one that’s saying “no” when other parents are just saying “yes”! At times it’s in everybody’s interest and has to be done for the long haul. Stressful frustrations can set in but setting boundaries and limits are important for developmental needs.

 

5. Look around you. Are there any adults outside of your immediate family that have a positive influence on your child’s life? Perhaps it’s his or her teacher that pushes them to practice writing their name and teaches them not to give up. Maybe they are in the swim team and the instructor pushes them a few more laps in the pool, to motivate them. Maybe they have a supervisor in charge of their routes where they deliver the Sunday newspaper teaching them commitment and responsibility. All parties can benefit from having supportive relationships.

 

 

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