There comes a time in our lives when we must write our own happy ending. We stand up and take control of our destiny. We write the following chapter in the Book of our life.
But it’s not the whole book. Whatever happened in your past…the pain, the heartache, the abuse, the betrayal…it was just one page in your life. The lessons learned are beyond our comprehension. We got hurt. We opened our eyes. We moved on. We cried and we took everything in as experience.
Make a Wish for your future
It is time to make your happy ending. So go ahead and make your wish. Reach high, the bigger the wish the better! With that being said, you will be the one that strives for perfection. The one that will do everything in your power to turn your wish into reality.
Even with the pain your enduring, you will find a way to get around it. Your different and stronger than you think. All wounds heal. Sometimes they might take longer to heal or faster depending on the magnitude, but they will heal! The deeper the wound, the stronger will be our wish for a bigger and better future relationship. When a wish does not come from a negative experience it most likely will not be fulfilled. The wanting energy is not the same.
Be Grateful for your Past
Without your past hurt, you wouldn’t be the strong person you are today. Without the pain you would not know how to enjoy the happiness that people share daily.
It is a change in thinking that will make all the difference. Replacing the fear and uncertainty with love and gratitude. The easy way is blaming the other person. Blaming ourselves. If only we were this way or that way, things would be different. Really the problem is not with us. But the other person was not ready to have a super star. The other person did not deserve you. Really you deserve better, if no one can see the diamond that’s in front of them, than they are not worth your time!
Instead of forgetting the past, or trying to figure out the motive, say Thank-you God (Universe) that it did happen. Be thankful, now the right people will be coming into your path. You opened your eyes and now your free to finally be happy with yourself just before someone will come and make you happy.
Create a Distance Betwen you and your Past
Anyone that did not want you in their life when you vowed to stay in theirs does not deserve to have any contact from you. That means, for you to heal quickly, no Social Media contact. Do you really think you can move on when you still have them on your Facebook account which is a window open for you to check up on her or his status, pictures, movement?
Spring cleaning is. not only for furniture, appliances, clothes etc we can apply it on people that no longer are serving their purpose in our lives. Having still memories can also leave you stuck in that rut. Old clothes, text messages, saved emails, letters, pictures, should all be out of your life, especially if you were the one that got hurt and want to move on.
Life is too short to be stuck in the past when there’s infinite possibilities .