If being a friend is turning your back when someone needs you, then I don’t want to be a friend….

If being a friend means talking behind someone’s back, then I don’t want to be a friend…

If being a friend means there is competition to be better, than I don’t want to be a friend….

If being a friend is not keeping secrets, then I don’t want to be a friend…

If being a friend builds up a world of envy and jealousy, stirring ideas to sabotage someone’s happiness then let’s all be alone! ❤️

 

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Keep Going, it is your Journey

Goals are to us as fuel to an ignition. It lights our flame. It gives us something to aim for while we live our lives. It may not always be smooth sailing for there will always be bumps on the road. Life will always hand us a few disappointments here or there. We may feel discouraged with all the stumbles and falls, but we have to keep going. We have to keep striving for our goals and objectives.

          If things were handed to you, how would you appreciate them? How would you make the most out of them if you did not work hard enough to achieve them? You probably would not have learned anything from them. Most likely you remained in the same spot and without growth.

We have to keep going even when it seems so hard. As Confucius once said “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.” Change your plan. Find another route to your desired destination. Life is full of obstacles, heartaches, disturbances. Things we deal with daily that make us feel hopeless. We encounter all kinds of people that are insolent, unprofessional, egotistic or that might take advantage of our caring nature.

You have to stay strong. Don’t let them defeat you! Don’t listen to anyone’s voice but your own. The same way we can choose our reaction to counterattack we can choose the reaction to not be bothered with. Some people just want to press our buttons, but our peace of mind is far greater! Keep going, it is your Journey!

 

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Live in Truth

It takes years to build trust and seconds to lose it! People often base their judgements on how much trust they can see in another based on their actions and follow throughs on their words. Do you mean what you say? Do you do what you say you will do? Trust is the difference between positive outcomes and negative ones.

The truth whether easy or hard is always necessary. It truly does set you free from a world of uncertainty and distrust. The truth may be hard and rough, but living in a world of lies is even worst because it eats bits of you day after day until you don’t know who you really are and all of those around you too! Things get done with trust.

Without a lie we would not get to the truth. Some like to take the easy way out and lie to reach their goals. What they don’t realize is that it takes more energy to lie than to tell the truth. They often ended up lying more and more until they don’t know what they’ve said and before they know it, they’re spiraling down until their caught! The real power lies in being truthful because you are free. You do not have to remember what you said before because your story stays the same. Nothing ever changes except the fact that now you have more people on your side.

Nothing better than peace of mind. The one that lets you sleep soundly at night and all for what: for telling the truth!

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Be Yourself

Don’t be afraid to show your true feelings. To be who you are meant to be. Part of living is being who we truly are and if you still don’t know, that’s ok. In time you will know when the right time comes. Don’t play it safe thinking 💭 of what others want you to be, be yourself!

Dress the way you want! Act the way you want. Only you know what’s right for you. If you don’t want to be, and need a little time, take the time you need! It’s ok to not be ok. We all need our space and time to manage our feelings. The world needs more diversity in thoughts and feelings. That’s what makes us beautiful flowers in this tremendous garden.

Be yourself! That voice inside of you, wants to be heard. It’s time we all start doing things for ourselves instead of thinking about the judgements that may come! If you listen to other people’s opinions on how you should live, your only going to hurt yourself! ❤️

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When you realize life would be empty and boring without problems, you begin to accept them and you can even have fun with them. When you enjoy facing problems instead of resisting them, you take care of them when they’re easy before they turn into an overwhelming mountain.
– Elizabeth Hallowell ❤️

Start Over With New Possibilities

Not all our days will be the same… Some days may not have a good outcome. Some people may not have been truthful to you…

There will be days when you won’t feel the love…  Or days when the things you wanted most might not happen… We don’t always get everything we want right away….. But do you know what?

Every day we get a new chance to start over with new expectations and throughout the day, we gain experience and grow as a person. A bad day will not define who you are! It is just a bad day and tomorrow will be better!  Just breathe and remember, tomorrow is another day to start over with new possibilities!  ❤️

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Shake off the dust.

Life is about living and learning to wait a little bit, yes, but don’t despair, good things come to those who wait, and then your all smiles.

Good things need to fit at the right time!

GO FOR ME: when we do everything to deserve it, it will find us along the way.🍃

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Good Morning Beautiful People from Toronto…

It is a beautiful day while I take a break before starting home schooling lessons on our three kids.
It is not easy, especially with a Special Needs child that needs an added incentive to do his best! He is very smart but at the same time he sabotages himself by not doing more but we can only do our best and decided not to put too much pressure on him. We do our best explaining to him the steps and even work together, but some days when he wakes up, and he’s not feeling it, then there’s not enough requests and trade-offs that will make him do his work…
So, we just give him his space and when he sees his siblings having fun doing their work, he comes around. Sometimes he does work that is not for him and we are ecstatic by that! Thankfully, every day is not the same! We all do not learn the same… To anyone going through this, “don’t give up”! Do what you can! There is always tomorrow for another chance…